As an intimacy educator, Acacia DëQueer helps students, artists, and teachers prepare to work on scenes of intimacy using consent-based methods.

Acacia Can Help:

  • Develop students’ tool kits to work on scenes of intimacy in the future
  • Establish consent-based practices
  • Strengthen screenwriting for scenes of intimacy
  • Provide hands-on learning experiences and chances to play with new ideas
  • And more!

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What services does Acacia provide as an intimacy educator?

• Teaching workshops
• Speaking on panels
• Writing articles
• Designing curriculum

What topics can Acacia cover as an intimacy educator?

• Writing Intimacy
• Practicing Consent
• Expressing & Responding to Boundaries
• Working with Intimacy Professionals
• Casting Best-Practices
• Drafting Nudity Riders
• Reducing Risks
• Choreographing Intimacy
• Voicing Intimacy
• Notating Choreography
• Diversifying Intimacy
• And More!

What training does Acacia have?

Specialized training from intimacy professional organizations including Principle Intimacy Professionals, Intimacy Directors and Coordinators, the National Society of Intimacy Professionals, Intimacy Directors International, Theatrical Intimacy Education, and more

Consent, anti-harassment/anti-sexual harassment, and bystander intervention training from Speak About It

Adult and Youth Mental Health First Aid Certifications

Conflict mediation training from the National Conflict Resolution Center

Sexual health training from the Michigan Organization on Adolescent Sexual Health

Anti-racism, gender identity, and sexual orientation education from Vassar College and the International Honors Program

And movement coaching training from Tiny Buddha Yoga.

For more information about Acacia’s qualifications, visit faer Education, Resume, and About pages.

Where does Acacia work as an intimacy educator?

Most services are run remotely so Acacia can work with folks from any location.

Acacia is willing to travel anywhere.

Acacia provides services through their California-based company, DeQueer LLC.

Acacia speaking about intimacy coordination at the Hobnobben Film Festival

Do you have questions? Acacia has answers.


Acacia DëQueer with theater students at Vassar College